Beat the Blahs
The dark, cold days of January can get in the way of all those wonderful resolutions you made about getting healthy and fit. Understanding a little about how your body responds to the seasons will help you to be aware of it, then fight it!
December 21 is the date of the winter solstice, the shortest, darkest day of the year. Throughout history, people have brought greenery and light into their homes to battle the darkness. Similarly, we need to take advantage of any sunlight that is available, get outside in full sun (if possible) for 10-15 minutes every sunny day during the winter. In this way, you'll fight SAD, Seasonal Adaptive Disorder, caused by reduction in sunlight.
When you take stock of your life at the beginning of the year, remember that while it is important to bring up the things that aren't working in order to change them, don't allow those feelings to overshadow your efforts and accomplishments.
Lastly, when you do make your resolutions, make them smaller and more easy to accomplish. Setting impossible goals leads to dissatisfaction and frustration. Accomplishing small tasks leads to improved self-image.

Retire Well
We’re all looking forward to that magic time when we can turn off the alarm clock for the last time because we’re, well…retired!
Men can expect to live well into their 70’s and women are even healthier, with life expectancies into their 80s. The average age of retirement is between 62 and 65.
That means that you have to plan for quite a few years where you can live comfortably and enjoy that time when you don’t answer to an employer.
Look at your retirement and your Social Security expectations. While you may qualify for Social Security, it might be in your best interest to defer it for a few more years so that you can collect a much healthier monthly check later.
Don’t let retirement take you by surprise. Are you prepared to spend 24/7 with your spouse/partner again? Some couples find that they’ve gotten very used to being apart. Being together again could take some adjustment. Look at it as a second opportunity at courtship. Many couples reconnect in ways they never expected after retirement.
"My formula for living is quite simple. I get up in the morning and I go to bed at night. In between, I occupy myself as best I can."
~Cary Grant
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